Partnership: Desires of the Soul

Partnership: Desires of the Soul

I’m sifting through the interviews for my book on partnership and as I read the thoughts of men and women of all ages, the overwhelming desire is for connection. Whether in marriage, dating, polyamory or choosing to be single because you can’t face another brush with...

An absence of malice

An Ex came to my house for a visit a couple of months ago. And when I asked him why he’d come, he said he was worried I might be out there in the world hating him. So he’d come in person to see if his worries were warranted. ‘I’ve never hated you,’ I said. ‘I’m not...

The Ex-connection

When I finished talking to my Ex and his partner yesterday morning I walked away thinking two things. Firstly, ‘she suits him so much more than I ever did’ and secondly, ‘thank God I did my hair this morning’. It was a surprisingly ‘together’ and mature response for...