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Dream Creators Collective
It’s time to make your dreams real.
No more BS.
No more reasons why you can’t or shouldn’t.
If you’re ready to get serious, develop epic self-trust and harness your intuition so you can get out there and create change in the world, then this is for you!
About Lucretia
Published Work
The Men I Almost Dated.
A voyeuristic, thoughtful and at times mortifying memoir about a woman who’s determined to follow her heart wherever it leads, even when the road is a dead end.
Lucretia has two more books scheduled for release in 2020.
Latest Blogs
Should you be more realistic about your future?
When you receive negative feedback about what you want to create, it can be hard to keep your focus and maintain your faith in your ability to make your dreams real.
But there are things you can do to
make sure other people’s stories don’t take you off track and
stop you from living your purpose.
When Love Goes Kaput
A lot of us have been struggling with love and matters of the heart over the last few days. I’ve had so many conversations with friends about loving the wrong people, putting yourself out there and being rejected, trying to work out how you feel and then how the other...
Go to the edge of your comfort zone, cross the border, then keep going
Are you doing a university degree that you don’t really like or staying in a job that you don’t really care about? Maybe you want to travel but you’re too afraid to go alone. Well, this week I heard from a former work colleague who was a lot like you are now. But...
![Humans are such resilient creatures. Most of us will experience some loss, trauma, sadness, disappointment and heartbreak in our lives yet still (most of the time), we keep getting out of bed every morning and carry on. We paper over the cracks and carry on.
Now, while I’m not an advocate for wallowing for too long - as someone who has experienced anxiety, depression and yes, even suicidal thoughts in the past, I know it’s unhealthy and dangerous to set up camp in that place.
But I’ve had conversations recently where people have given me very good “reasons” why they can’t do what they truly desire. And those reasons are based very firmly and clearly in the pain of their past.
Our mind loves to take those hurtful experiences of our past and then uses them to shape our future. It tells us to be risk averse, to spot potential pain and difficulties in advance and then do everything we can do avoid them. And so our past shapes our future, over and over again.
Sometimes this is a good thing. But often it’s not. If you’re avoiding a situation because you couldn’t cope with it in the past, because you weren’t strong enough or because you weren’t ready back then, it doesn’t mean you will be the same today.
You’re not the same person you were back then. You’re not even the same person you were an hour ago or a minute ago. We humans transform every second of every day that we live. Our blood flows, our hearts beat and we receive sensory information in every moment. In every millisecond our world and our place in it can shift without prior notice.
Our downfall is our minds think they know better. Most of the time, they don’t. Instead they simply keep us trapped in the patterns of the past as they try to protect us from the future we could have if were just courageous enough to see past the pain of our previous experiences.
You can see it’s a consciousness loop that doesn’t serve us very well.
If you are avoiding something you want because it didn’t work out before, look past the pain and see the truth of the matter...[continued in comments]](https://secureservercdn.net/184.168.47.225/f40.119.myftpupload.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed/img/placeholder.png)